https://www.reddit.com/r/Jetbrains/comments/1mbbkao/boosting_intellij_performance_my_final_setup/

-Xss1m
-Xmx4G
-XX:SoftRefLRUPolicyMSPerMB=7
-XX:+UseG1GC
-XX:MaxGCPauseMillis=100
-XX:G1HeapRegionSize=16m
-XX:NewRatio=2
-XX:InitiatingHeapOccupancyPercent=66
-Dide.no.platform.update=true

Quick notes on the logic